Secret Lives: Gleaning Tips from Our Imaginary Selves

Inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that’s where you renew your springs that never dry up.  ~ Pearl Buck

What are you going to be when you grow up? Today, let’s think about paths not yet taken – the paths of our secret imaginary selves.

Each of us leads many lives  vicariously  and often simultaneously. By acknowledging our secret lives and tapping into the wisdom of our imaginary alter egos, we can glean tips to help us develop our own personal sense of style. So first divine, who you’d be if not you?

If you had ten other lives to live, what would you be doing? —

Now, write down your secret selves.  How do they live? How do they dress? 


This is me taken 2 or 3 years ago. I luv’d that buri hat to tatters, haha! Click on the pic and you’ll be whooshed’ back to my journal page.

What can you do to bring some of the magic of your imaginary lives into your everyday existence?

Brainstorm with your authentic self. For example, I absolutely adore the colorful style of today’s country and western women singers. I’m drawn to their exuberant extravagance even though my natural inclination as a communicator is more understated. How to reconcile fantasy with reality and bring more pizzaz into my life? Maybe it’s as simple as realizing that I’d really love to wear beautiful red leather cowboy boots. Because this is a recurring fantasy, I’m now saving and searching. When I find them ( on sale naturally), I’m going to pair them with a power suit.

Look within today and have fun. Maybe red cowboy boots aren’t for you,  but one of your secret selves might reveal a passionate wish. Your secret imaginary lives are full of surprises. Be open to gleaning their secrets of personal style.

~ Sarah Ban Breathnach, Simple Abundance


The Birth of A Thought – ( Vibrational Harmony)

As you perceive something, you give birth to a thought, and this thought now thinks. Now that it exists, now that it has been conjured, now that it has been focused,now it vibrates. Now, by Law of Attraction, other thoughts that are vibrationally same will come to it. So it begins its expansion immediately. — AbrahamImageIt’s not your work to make anything happen. It’s your work to dream it and let it happen. Law of Attraction will make it happen. In your joy, you create something, and then you maintain your vibrational harmony with it, and the Universe must find a way to bring it about. That’s the promise of Law of Attraction.

 Use whatever excuse you can to vibrate in harmony with those things you’ve been saying you want. And when you do, those things that are a vibrational equivalent flow into your experience in abundance. Not because you deserve it, not because you’ve earned it, but because it’s the natural consequence of the Law of Attraction. That which is like unto itself is drawn. — Abraham


You have more harmony points with every person on the planet than you have disharmony points, because there is much more of you that is in harmony with your Core than you realize or that most of you allow. The closer you come to being in harmony with your Source Energy, the more in harmony you are with each other.Image

When you think about other people and what they think of you, do you understand that what they think of you has very little to do with what you are? It has mostly to do with the habits of thought that they have developed. It has more to do with them as thinkers than it does with you as the subject of their thought. If nothing is more important to you than that you feel good, you can form a fantasy about someone who is in your life and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy, because Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing. — Abraham